If you do not judge other people, you're not a human. It is a gift given to us by God, which has its own pros and cons. We come across many people, who we classify as good, bad acquantices, selfish etc. Bitch about one person in a group, and you come to know that different people have different views about the same person.
The logic here is simple, isn't it? You judge people on how they behave with you. Like for example, you have that one good friend, good because he/she is your friend right from the time you were not even born (your great grandfathers were chuddy buddies in their times). You share even the shittiest things, or the lamest joke that you have come across. You may know people who give you those negative vibes when they are around. But I am sure there are many instances in which you hate a person, just because he/she is bad with your that good friend
I can give an instance which can give you a clear vision of what I am actually trying to say. Tina and Vina are the best of friends. Tom, a third person, who was supposed to be an acquantice, all of a sudden comes and abuses Tina. Vina, who has no clue of what is going on, abuses back. Now Vina and Tom become enemies because of Tina (sorry :P )
Few years later, they meet in some function. Discuss how stupid they were few years back. Vina comes to know that there was some serious issue between her best friend and Tom. Vina realizes that she would have done something similar, had she been in the place of Tom. Now her perceptions about Tom has changes. Let me stop this thing here, cause it is confusing me as well :P
The whole point of this was to actually bring my view forward, that how we just judge people without having a knowledge of the entire scenario. We actually start hating people without even knowing the reason why we hate that person.
You can take another scenario here. A person who sits besides you in your XYZ classes is an average student. You know more than that person knows about that subject. He/She asks you N number of doubts and you readily help that person.. However, you get frustrated one day due to the continuous bombarding of questions (probably because you are in a bad mood or having a serious head ache) and you say enough. "How dumb can you be?" is what you first come up with. But now lets switch the positions. You are now in class ABC and the person who sits besides you is an expert in that subject. You try to learn new things by keeping a constant touch with that person and all of a sudden you get a rude answer, "How dumb can you be?". Isn't that insulting? Won't you think that person is selfish and don't want you to grow?
My exact point here in this article is that there is no good/bad. It depends totally in which situation you are. Except for rare cases like Mother Teressa who was extremely good and Kasab (nothing else comes up to my mind :/) who was extremely bad.
Before judging anyone, put yourself in their shoes. If it still does'nt work, make them as your enemy (not bad if you have one :P) World is a beautiful place to live in, take all the positive and keep away all the negative.
Not having a great line to end this article, because I am not a good author! I just write what comes up to my mind ;)
P.S. Nobody is perfect, so is my article :P
The logic here is simple, isn't it? You judge people on how they behave with you. Like for example, you have that one good friend, good because he/she is your friend right from the time you were not even born (your great grandfathers were chuddy buddies in their times). You share even the shittiest things, or the lamest joke that you have come across. You may know people who give you those negative vibes when they are around. But I am sure there are many instances in which you hate a person, just because he/she is bad with your that good friend
I can give an instance which can give you a clear vision of what I am actually trying to say. Tina and Vina are the best of friends. Tom, a third person, who was supposed to be an acquantice, all of a sudden comes and abuses Tina. Vina, who has no clue of what is going on, abuses back. Now Vina and Tom become enemies because of Tina (sorry :P )
Few years later, they meet in some function. Discuss how stupid they were few years back. Vina comes to know that there was some serious issue between her best friend and Tom. Vina realizes that she would have done something similar, had she been in the place of Tom. Now her perceptions about Tom has changes. Let me stop this thing here, cause it is confusing me as well :P
The whole point of this was to actually bring my view forward, that how we just judge people without having a knowledge of the entire scenario. We actually start hating people without even knowing the reason why we hate that person.
You can take another scenario here. A person who sits besides you in your XYZ classes is an average student. You know more than that person knows about that subject. He/She asks you N number of doubts and you readily help that person.. However, you get frustrated one day due to the continuous bombarding of questions (probably because you are in a bad mood or having a serious head ache) and you say enough. "How dumb can you be?" is what you first come up with. But now lets switch the positions. You are now in class ABC and the person who sits besides you is an expert in that subject. You try to learn new things by keeping a constant touch with that person and all of a sudden you get a rude answer, "How dumb can you be?". Isn't that insulting? Won't you think that person is selfish and don't want you to grow?
My exact point here in this article is that there is no good/bad. It depends totally in which situation you are. Except for rare cases like Mother Teressa who was extremely good and Kasab (nothing else comes up to my mind :/) who was extremely bad.
Before judging anyone, put yourself in their shoes. If it still does'nt work, make them as your enemy (not bad if you have one :P) World is a beautiful place to live in, take all the positive and keep away all the negative.
Not having a great line to end this article, because I am not a good author! I just write what comes up to my mind ;)
P.S. Nobody is perfect, so is my article :P
